How To Dine Out With Kids

It's easy to see why many parents of young children avoid restaurants and prefer to eat at home, where thrown food will hit only members of the immediate family. But sometimes it's necessary and even fun  to eat out. If you have a 2 to 4year-old and you're still uneasy about dining out, these suggestions will help:

Before you go

• Pack a bag of tricks. Bring a variety of reliable amusements, including favourite books, games, and (quiet) toys. If you know you'll need to fill an hour, overestimate and bring two hours' worth of goodies.

If your child is especially energetic and restless, pack a couple of new, small toys that will hold his interest (at least until the food arrives). It's also a good idea to throw in a few favourite snacks, in case the food is slow to arrive or not to your child's liking (just because he loves the mac 'n' cheese at home doesn't mean he'll eat the restaurant version).

• Pick the right restaurant. Choose a child-friendly restaurant, preferably one casual and loud enough to absorb any noise your family might make. Make a reservation if possible, so you don't have to wait to be seated.
• If you're new to eating out with kids, consider working your way gradually up the food chain by practicing good behaviour in a basic burger joint, where manners matter less to those around you. Buffets are great for families with small children.kids like the wide selection, and everyone is walking around, so no one minds (or even notices) you taking short forays with your pre-schooler.
• Set some ground rules, and enforce them at home. Young children are creatures of habit. If you establish realistic, age-appropriate guidelines at home, you're more likely to see your child following the rules when dining out.
• Go early. Be among the first to arrive for the breakfast, lunch, or dinner hour and you'll be seated and served more quickly. Quicker service means less "gap time" between ordering and food arrival or between courses and less gap time means less time for your active pre-schooler to get rambunctious.
• Treat eating out as a reward. To motivate your child to maintain some decorum in public, make eating out a special event where good behaviour is not only expected but required.

source(babycenter)